_love your self_
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship
that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man
before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as you deserve then heck no, you
can’t "be friends."
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle. If
you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
probably is.
Don’t stay because you think "it will get better."
You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is
you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant,
why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate
from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man
know everything.
He will use it against you later. You cannot change
a man’s behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important
than you are,
Even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man.
If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him
to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the
bending…compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships.
There is nothing cute about baggage deal with
your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE
you
A relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals…look for someone complimentary…not
supplementary.
Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr.
Right.
Make him miss you sometimes
When a man always know where you are, and
youre always readily available to him- he takes it
for granted.
Never move into his mother’s house.
Never co-sign for a man.
(Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!)
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you
everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies…..
You’ll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK
her
choices, AND another woman PREPARE. They
say
it takes a minute to find a special person,
an hour to appreciate them,
a day to love them and
an entire lifetime to forget them.
"A swordman always keep his sword sharp, but
never draws out without a cause"
